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Ever feel lied to? Like everything we were told as was a lie? That one day, someone special would come along, fill all the missing pieces we have, and somehow complete us?
Yeah. Me too.
The good thing is this: Its OK. Now were adults and we know better. We know that its entirely possible to love our spouses and our lives, but still need something "more". Its OK to know that its impossible for one person to completely fulfill us, even if society wants us to believe otherwise. It doesnt make us bad people, it just means were human. How can we be expected to spend our entire lives with someone and not grow apart in some way, or need new adventures, or hear new stories from someone. Its just not fair to ourselves, our spouses, or even our .
Theres a great comment that I read once, and I think its worth sharing here
"Because you adult personals Encinitas California are not what I would have you be, I blind myself to who, in truth, you actually are"
To me that sums up the relationships most of us have with our spouses. We spend so much time wishing they would change, or grow in the same way as us, or be something that they arent, that we forget to appreciate who they really are. We lose sight of that along the way, and the only answer is to admit we need more and ask for it. So this is me asking for it.
Im in my mid 30s white, in good but not model worthy shape, open minded, honest to a fault, creative and outgoing, and looking for someone to be my missing piece. Someone to fall in love with, be open and honest with, someone to laugh with, someone to date and connect with, and someone who wants an ongoing longterm relationship with a really good person (who might just be cute as well). I dont have a physical type Im looking for (although Im generally attracted to white, articulate, and witty women), but I do hope for someone in the same situation as me with and a stable life. I bring no drama to this, as my wife knows and is supportive, and I dont want to bring drama to anyone elses life either. I want this to be as simple as possible. Something to make both our lives better.
I look forward to hearing from anyone and everyone that this ad resonates with. I know youre out there, thinking and feeling the same things I am. I cant wait to hear from you, whoever you are. |